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Jessica. 19. Wife. Mother to my little lady, born April 6th, 2011. Christian. Currently, we are wttc. In May/July 2014, when my birth control is scheduled to be taken out, we will be actively ttc-ing.

Marriage tip:

tasteslikeburning:

respectthebump:

nerdgasming:

respectthebump:

nerdgasming:

respectthebump:

nerdgasming:

If it hurts when you are having sex and your husband refuses to do anything to help with that then punch him in the dick repeatedly until he changes his mind. Then find someone who gives a shit about you in the bedroom and isn’t a selfish douche bag.

Yeah, because it’s…

Really? I’m not making fun of her. I’m giving her solid advice. The chick obviously gives zero fucks about herself. This advice goes for everyone in a situation with a selfish spouse.

Would you like to have someone give you ‘advice’ in that way about YOUR husband? Would YOU take that person and their ‘advice’ seriously?
Domestic abuse is something that you have to be careful with. I don’t want to fight with you, I won’t be replying anymore, but you guys need to get off your high horse and realize that this kind of shit doesn’t work.

I’ve been in an abusive relationship and this is exactly what would have worked for me. She obviously doesn’t listen to reason. And if this situation is actually real I doubt her husband would let her read anything helpful anyway. So. Bite me.

I lied. I will reply. I have been in an abusive relationship too. This shit didn’t work on me. It was actually very detrimental to me and my health. You need to realize that JUST BECAUSE IT WORKED FOR YOU DOESNT MEAN IT WILL WORK ON A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON. And ‘bite me?’ That’s really mature.
Okay. Now I’m done. I can’t change someone over the internet. I guess that’s a concept a lot of you mumblrs haven’t grasped yet.
I’m sure you are an excellent mother and wife, but no one is perfect.

^^^
I’m breaking my silence about this.
There are very different dynamics in abusive relationships and victim blaming and giving ‘advice’ such as this has shown to only alien the victim further.
I’m so sick of seeing people discussing this person’s situation and talking about her like she is some moron you can judge and make fun of because you’d never ‘put up’ with behavior that. You all keep saying she needs to leave and get out and if she doesn’t it’s her fault she’s being abused without understanding the potential consequences of that advice. Everyone needs to back up off her and stop acting like immature, stupid bitches to this woman. Instead of offering your alienating, unsolicited advice, perhaps put your energy to providing support where appropriate. All fucking day I’ve been seeing comments like this directed towards her situation and you idiots need to realize exactly how harmful that is.
/end fucking rant

YES THANK YOU.

"She obviously doesn’t listen to reason." And you think you’re not victim blaming? Because this is exactly what victim blaming is. You’re now putting the fault on the victim for not listening to what YOU define as "reason." I’ve never been a victim of a physically abusive relationship, but I have been of a mentally/emotional abusive one and I can tell you, you’re idea of "reason" would have made me want to punch YOU in the crotch, not him.

As a victim yourself, I would think that you would remember those times when people tried to reason with you, but you just didn’t see it how they saw it - because any abusive relationship is based off manipulation and control over one party. You are blinded to the “looking from the outside in” perspective and your own perspective is manipulated and false because of the abuser.

If you really think that you’re being any kind of helpful, you’re delusional. If you think that this ISN’T alienating her, once again, delusional. Stop making fun of someone who is in a serious situation that is probably life threatening.

As soon as I got up, I got Elizabeth and I ready to go to the store with my mom who needed to take my cousin shopping and we’ve just gotten home. I didn’t intend to buy anything, but there was still a lot of Easter sales going on.

I got Elizabeth one of those huge stuffed bunnies that are normally ten dollars for two fifty. And then a little stuffed puppy with a rabbit ear headband for .74, as well as a little package of mini chocolate bunnies and a bag of jolly rancher jelly beans.

I also bought my sister a 2.50 bunny rabbit, but its a bit smaller. My mom got her some stuff as well.

I love after holiday sales.

lost my phone for hours. finally find and it and then i lose the roku remote.

i am awesome.

sunflower-mama:

*i am not formula shaming*

I am simply an advocate for breastfeeding and setting breastfeeding goals and doing everything you can to reach them. It’s true, some people have an issue with milk production&supply but 90% of the time, sticking to it, seeking support and troubleshooting can help you to meet and fulfill your breastfeeding goals!

sunflower-mama:

*i am not formula shaming*

I am simply an advocate for breastfeeding and setting breastfeeding goals and doing everything you can to reach them. It’s true, some people have an issue with milk production&supply but 90% of the time, sticking to it, seeking support and troubleshooting can help you to meet and fulfill your breastfeeding goals!

If you are ignoring me for tumblr
#tisyourhusband

If you are ignoring me for tumblr
#tisyourhusband

If that anon went to school, they'd 'probs' know to start a sentence with a capital, spell words out and mind their own fucking business. :D Love yooooou!

Hahahaha! I believe you’re right, ma’am. LOVE YOU TOO :D

Reblogged from girlsbydaylight, Posted by hamandheroin.
thecityhorse:

adriofthedead:

swearbythefrecklesonthemoon:

chekhovs:

The Animal Rescue Site is having trouble getting enough people to click on it daily so they can meet their quota of getting FREE FOOD donated every day to abused and neglected animals in their shelters.
It takes less than a minute (only about 15 seconds actually) to go to their site and click on the purple box titled, ‘Click Here to Give - it’s FREE!’. Every click gives about .6 bowls of food to sheltered dogs. You can also click daily!
Keep in mind that this does not cost you a thing. Their corporate sponsors/advertisers use the number of daily visits to donate food to abandoned/neglected animals in exchange for advertising. [via.]
Go to the website HERE.

It’s just a click… takes about 1 or 2 seconds.

there’s no pop-up ads or anything on the site
just click it once and you’re done

if all of my followers click, it’s more than a few thousand meals so.. please?

thecityhorse:

adriofthedead:

swearbythefrecklesonthemoon:

chekhovs:

The Animal Rescue Site is having trouble getting enough people to click on it daily so they can meet their quota of getting FREE FOOD donated every day to abused and neglected animals in their shelters.

It takes less than a minute (only about 15 seconds actually) to go to their site and click on the purple box titled, ‘Click Here to Give - it’s FREE!’. Every click gives about .6 bowls of food to sheltered dogs. You can also click daily!

Keep in mind that this does not cost you a thing. Their corporate sponsors/advertisers use the number of daily visits to donate food to abandoned/neglected animals in exchange for advertising. [via.]

Go to the website HERE.

It’s just a click… takes about 1 or 2 seconds.

there’s no pop-up ads or anything on the site

just click it once and you’re done

if all of my followers click, it’s more than a few thousand meals so.. please?

(Source: hamandheroin)

Anonymous asked:
if youd discipline your kid more she probs wouldnt act like that.

Ah yes thank you anon for your wonderful insight into my life of which you know absolutely nothing about.

So, I’m staying in my mom’s room right? and she just moved to this house so her stuff isn’t all unpacked and there are a couple of boxes in here.

Anyway, Elizabeth keeps trying to get in them and of course I keep telling her. Well, she just spent the last ten minutes elaborately covering herself in her blanket and I wasn’t sure why until I saw her arm peak out and CAREFULLY pull something out from the box. I told her I could see her and to put it back and she quickly pulled it under the blanket. She’s completely silent messing with this thing underneath there.

It’s times like these I’m torn between trying to let her reap the fruits of her labor because it was so darn cute and smart and actually enforcing rules lol.